DADDY?? WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM? - SEX EDUCATION

Starting early with age-appropriate information about sex is a good idea

Curiosity about sex is a natural step from learning about the body. Sex education helps kids understand about the body and helps them feel positive about their own bodies. Younger kids are interested in pregnancy and babies, rather than the mechanics of sex.
The topic question is more often than not thrown at parents in this clime, and i should give modern day technology i.e., the internet 3 GBOSA for grooming our kids in its own evil ways. If your children ask you this question and you can't give them a plausible answer lol, i'm very sorry for you be sure that they'll look for the next available smart phone and type the same question.

In our days we weren't so tech-savvy so our parents didn't see the need to talk about the clearly uncomfortable topic, but we can't say the same of our kids.
And we are always so busy about making money and trying to make up for lost time in traffic by doing all the wrong things once we get home and forget the most important things. Most Lagosians who work on the Island and reside on the mainland hardly ever sleep! 

Discussing sex is also part of starting open communication with your child. Early, honest, and open communication between parents and kids is very important, especially when your child becomes an adolescent. If open communication is normal, kids are more likely to speak with parents about all the other trials of adolescence, such as depression, relationships, and the abuse of drugs and alcohol, as well as sexual issues.
Beginning a conversation about sex early and continuing that conversation as the child grows is the best sex education strategy. It lets parents avoid giving one big, and likely uncomfortable talk when the child reaches adolescence (and will have already gotten information and misinformation from their friends). These conversations are easiest when they come out of a life experience, like seeing a pregnant woman or a baby.
When parents talk with their children about sex, they can make sure that they are getting the right information.  Parents should be a child’s first source of information about sex. Understanding correct information can protect children from risky behaviour as they grow up.

Instilling your family values

Sex education also provides an opportunity to instill your family values in your kids. For example, if you come from a family that believes intercourse should be saved for marriage, this can be part of the discussions about sexuality. If the subject has never come up before, there is significant risk that your child, now a teenager, will not be receptive to this message.

If parents do not teach their children about sex, they will learn about it from somewhere else

A child’s exposure to information about sex begins much earlier than many parents imagine. Not speaking with children about sex means parents will have little control over what and how they learn about sex. What they learn from wrong sources might stick in and when you "eventually" tell them, they might feel you're lying. It is no news that children of these days are very curious when it comes to sex-related issues and they are very perceptive. Personally, i would advise parents not to give their kids smart phones till they are through with their senior WAEC.

School, schoolyard, and the media

Parents should not rely on the school system to teach sex education. Depending on where you live, sex education may not even be available. If your child is taught sex education at school, review it with your child. Ask them what they learned.
What a child learns from friends and in the schoolyard will be incomplete and incorrect. It may also be demeaning or even dangerous.
Although the media is full of sex and sexuality, it is mostly depicted in the most sensational and superficial sense. Realistic portrayals of relationships and sexuality are rare. More often, issues around sex and sexuality appear either without any context or without any emotional or relationship component. Moreover, the risks of sexual activity are often hyped beyond the point teens will believe.

Sex education is safer than no sex education

Studies show the more children are exposed to sexual images in the media, the more likely it is they will engage in sexual behaviours at a younger age. However, actual sex education does NOT lead to promiscuity. Children who receive sex education at home are actually less likely to engage in risky sexual activity. So turn off the television and get talking. (C'mon, they shouldn't even be watching Timaya's "Shake Ya Bum Bum" before you bring this up!).

Having open communications with children about sex and other matters is healthy and safer in the long run. This does not necessarily mean it will be easy or without awkward moments. Teens are still very private people. However, speaking about sex early increases the chance that teens will approach parents when difficult or dangerous things come up.

 

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